Most genuine gestures or actions of love have so little to do with what most people are talking about when they say "making love"... so for me I would say, lights on, when you are going about your day, thinking, seeing, hearing, feeling that person you are being loving towards... then you do something nice for them, and she shows you a nice smile and hug for feeling that you have been listening to her soul.
(BUT what do i know about this kooky world???? As usual, my answers can be tossed out the door for most people on the planet, because most prefer simple straight cut answers to resolve there days, and are really not so good with genuine intimacy and romance... ahh they watch those rom-com movies, complain about not having a nice guy around, but then run like chickens being pursued by wolves when you merely whisk your tail, bite off a rose from the garden to place between there lips)... silly girls... scared of too many of the real wolves in the world to recognize a happy husky
.... so HEY, for those scaredy cats who need some blatant sign posts and might scream perversion (giggle), let's say "I would enjoy giving her a loving shag while the sun comes up!" (snicker, chuckle)
So either way, sunshine, fireplace, or office florescents just keep the lights on and look at the wonderful person you want to lub.
p.s. good romantic comedy: "Love, Actually"
