I think there is a lot of truth in what you are saying Brackstone. In the end you have to let people make their own mistakes if they are determined to do so.Brackstone wrote:Well that's my point, he tried and it didn't work. That's why I suggested just plain out not speaking to her. If she realizes he's willing to go to those lengths maybe THAT will open her eyes.fireguzzi wrote: Because, when it is someone you care about, like his sister, you gotta do what you can. You gotta try.
I don't recall ever seeing anyone even on here being talked out of buying a 600cc bike if it didn't happen in their first few posts. I believe the same is true for people outside of the forum.
All of my friends started out on 600cc bikes and they are fine some of their friends, however, are dead. I'm glad I took the slow way but some people are just going to do what they want to do.
I'm just a simplifier I guess, I try not to let things I don't have control over get to me.
But I'd hate to see a world where people just stopped caring - or started pretending not to. You've got to keep trying when faced with something like this. You've got to hope that you can do something, no matter how unlikely you think it is. The only question is how to go about it. We all have our own strategies and beliefs.
I just heard today that someone I know was killed on his R1 when a minubus backed out of a drive and ran straight into him. What can you say? You care because you do.