Going alone
Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 7:12 am
Hi there,
New to the biker world and this forum. My b/f of 9 months just informed me he is going to a biker rally with a male friend. They have gone toggether usually with their sons the past 15 years. He used to be married and told me he was bummed his wife was never into it. Thing is... I AM! I have ridden with him every time he's asked and he told me not long ago he keeps picturing us going on a cross-country trip together. I've even expressed interest in buying my own bike! I don't understand why he hasn't invited me!
He told me it was a guy thing and initially made it sound like his son would be going but later on said he probably isn't. He didn't indicate his friends' son was going either. When I sort of put up a stink about it he said "I didn't think you'd be interested. It's just a bunch of grease monkeys and races."
He did finally invite me but I felt it was just to placate me. He said "If it's bad weather I'm not going to put you on the back of my bike though." (Hmmm.. his friend has always driven a car until this year he got his own bike. He could suggest I drive up if he really wanted me to go.)
Think he's leaving me behind bcuz he's hoping to get some "action" while there? Don't most guys bring their women if they are into it??? Ladies, would this bother you?
New to the biker world and this forum. My b/f of 9 months just informed me he is going to a biker rally with a male friend. They have gone toggether usually with their sons the past 15 years. He used to be married and told me he was bummed his wife was never into it. Thing is... I AM! I have ridden with him every time he's asked and he told me not long ago he keeps picturing us going on a cross-country trip together. I've even expressed interest in buying my own bike! I don't understand why he hasn't invited me!
He told me it was a guy thing and initially made it sound like his son would be going but later on said he probably isn't. He didn't indicate his friends' son was going either. When I sort of put up a stink about it he said "I didn't think you'd be interested. It's just a bunch of grease monkeys and races."
He did finally invite me but I felt it was just to placate me. He said "If it's bad weather I'm not going to put you on the back of my bike though." (Hmmm.. his friend has always driven a car until this year he got his own bike. He could suggest I drive up if he really wanted me to go.)
Think he's leaving me behind bcuz he's hoping to get some "action" while there? Don't most guys bring their women if they are into it??? Ladies, would this bother you?