There seems to be quite a bit of women's gear on the internet, and my feeling is that as more of us get involved in biking, manufacturers will respond. Even in the design of bikes - eventually they will bring the seats down and the handlebars closer. It's a pain to order over the internet and not know if it will fit, I know, but it will get better. And keep going to motorcycle shows too. I bought my chaps at a show. Funny thing is that I went with a gay friend of mine who was wearing his leather jacket, and even though he has never even SAT on a bike before, everybody was responding to him instead of me! It will get better.