So what is it folks... light 250s for the beginner to learn maneuvering...or do you really need the speed of a larger bike for safe highway driving???
I read the forums, and it seems smaller bikes. But every time I go into a dealership they look at me like I'm signing my death warrant if I go with a small bike. Not that I'm not highly skeptical of dealers, but they make some convincing arguments...and no matter how I push the questions it always comes back to them recommending something in the 600/650 range for standard/cruisers (I really don't like sport bikes...but that also seems to be recommended more and more).
Here's the bikes I'm looking at based on recommendations:
virago 250 (indistinguishable I take it from the rebel 250 in performance?)
-websites say good,
- dealer says only around town. Wind will push me everywhere and will max out at 60 so won't be able to pass.
vulcan 500
-websites recommend, say better option for beg. highway.
- two dealers one said better choice than virago, but more recommends the suzuki s40. Other at same place said not much different than virago.
Now after talking to dealers:
Suzuki S40 is top in the running, did actually feel good and managable...dealer swears if I was his daughter this is what he'd want me on.

Also feeling good, I like the more central pegs and felt balanced to me, hough I really don't particularly like aesthetically... are the SV650 and the ducati multistrada (the ducati being very convincingly argued, but double what I was looking to spend, plus again being much larger engine then web advice usually recommends).
Would people agree that these larger bikes are really beginner friendly, or are the dealers giving me the run around? Especially the S40??
What is people's experience with the 250/500 on highways?
also, I'm in the bay area, so hills are an issue... I don't want to be speeding everywhere, but also don't want to be dangerous because I can't keep up speed...
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!
Thanks!