Sounds like you want to ride.Superfly3176 wrote:Not necessarily this simple.
Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
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Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
People say I'm stupid and apathetic. I don't know what that means, and I don't care.

Always wear a helmet, eye protection, and protective clothing. Never ride under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Always wear a helmet, eye protection, and protective clothing. Never ride under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
Loaning him books at this point ain't gonna do much good. He just needs to just ride. The only way to overcome it is to do it... and do it again... and again.. and.. well.. you get the idea.
Tell him to take it to a huge parking lot and practice until he's comfortable, then move to low traffic streets with lower speed limits, then work his way up from there.
Tell him to take it to a huge parking lot and practice until he's comfortable, then move to low traffic streets with lower speed limits, then work his way up from there.
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Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
Thought I would post this from one of my students
Hi Paul,
just a quick note from Erika & Ginette (2 of your trainees yesterday) to again say thank you.
Both of us were quite disgusted to ride on scooters at first but as a teacher you knew best.
I overcame my fear of scooters and learned all the good stuff before I could practice them on my bike and Ginette learned (most of all) to corner properly.
Thanks again for a very nice day.
Erika
This is from guys who have dropped their bikes. Going back to basics always works.
Hi Paul,
just a quick note from Erika & Ginette (2 of your trainees yesterday) to again say thank you.
Both of us were quite disgusted to ride on scooters at first but as a teacher you knew best.
I overcame my fear of scooters and learned all the good stuff before I could practice them on my bike and Ginette learned (most of all) to corner properly.
Thanks again for a very nice day.
Erika
This is from guys who have dropped their bikes. Going back to basics always works.
I spent my therapy money an a K1200S
The therapy worked, I got a GS now
A touch of insanity crept back in the shape of an R1200R
The therapy worked, I got a GS now
A touch of insanity crept back in the shape of an R1200R
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Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
HYPERR wrote:+1Johnj wrote:He wants to ride...or he doesn't.
Not to sound mean, rude, or cruel but John pretty much hit the nail right on the head. In the US, riding a motorcyle is pretty much a hobby. It is supposed to be enjoyable and something you really want to do. It's not supposed to be something you have to force it on yourself. It's a hobby. Either you like it or you don't. There are tons of other hobbies one can take up. Life is too short to be stuck with a hobby that one doesn't enjoy or question its merit.
That being said, I love motorcycling and knew it the moment I first rode a bike when I was a kid.
Hi there pumpkin ti.ts

A hobby, A HOBBY, you have to be joking ????
WTF, OMG a Hobby ???? You sure you mean Hobby ????
As for the original posters concern, "tell your mate (or if its you heheheh) Grow a set of hairy ones and get back on the horse and stop ya fookin crying"
Geeuz christ !!!! Wtf are you going to learn from a book .....a BOOK and a DVD????? are you serious ?
Im stunned what has happened to you guys, 1st one calls riding a hobby and the other has fallen off his bike on his driveway and is to scared to go riding again.
I knew this would happen if I disappeared for any length of time

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Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
Snuggims 

People say I'm stupid and apathetic. I don't know what that means, and I don't care.

Always wear a helmet, eye protection, and protective clothing. Never ride under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Always wear a helmet, eye protection, and protective clothing. Never ride under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
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Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
He's baaaaAAAAAaaaack!!!!shane-o wrote: I knew this would happen if I disappeared for any length of time![]()
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Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
Hi guys
good to see some familiar faces are still spreading the good word around here
hope life is treating you both well.
Sorry to the orig poster for the slight hijack
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good to see some familiar faces are still spreading the good word around here
hope life is treating you both well.
Sorry to the orig poster for the slight hijack

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Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
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People say I'm stupid and apathetic. I don't know what that means, and I don't care.

Always wear a helmet, eye protection, and protective clothing. Never ride under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Always wear a helmet, eye protection, and protective clothing. Never ride under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
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Re: Rider's confidence lost. How do you get it back?
Spam-Stuffed ManicottiJohnj wrote:Richard is aer
Serves/Makes: 8 | Difficulty Level: 3 | Ready In: 30-60 minutes
Ingredients:
8 manicotti shells
1/2 cup chopped onion
1 tablespoon vegetable oil
1 pound ground, fully cooked Spam
1 can (4 oz. size) sliced mushrooms, drained
Swiss cheese, divided
3 tablespoons grated parmesan cheese
1/2 cup chopped green pepper
3 tablespoons butter or margarine
3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2 cups milk
Paprika
Chopped fresh parsley
Directions:
Cook manicotti according to package directions; set aside.
In large skillet, saut� onion in oil until tender. Remove from heat. Add Spam, mushrooms, half of the Swiss cheese and parmesan; set aside.
In saucepan, saut� green pepper in butter until tender. Stir in flour until thoroughly combined. Add milk; cook, stirring constantly until thickened and bubbly. Mix a quarter of the sauce into Spam mixture.
Stuff shells with about 1/3 cup of filling each.
Place in greased 11x7x2 inch baking dish. Top with remaining sauce; sprinkle with Paprika. Cover and bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes of until heated through.
Sprinkle with parsley and remaining Swiss cheese before serving.
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