You want to know what bike does have a high COG? Try riding any year of Triumph Thunderbird. I traded the Sporty for a '95 T-Bird and the first thing I noticed was that it was one tippy s.o.b. It had way more snort than the Sporty and handled better in the corners but it never felt as solid and confidence inspiring. Had a very wide turning radius, too, because of the big radiator and it was awkward to move about at parking lot speeds.
Anyway. Jen if you want a Harley - buy a Harley. One of the ladies where I work has an 883 Hugger (her first bike) and she LOVES it. Do what feels right, girl.
