Counter-balancing is great for keeping the bike upright at slow speeds. At any decent speed, it's going to do very little to the bike itself as the forward momentum is going to want to keep the bike going in the direction it is moving. It takes a much stronger input, such as counter-steering, to turn (lean) the bike at faster speeds. People don't employ counter-steering for the heck of it..it's needed to turn the bike, period.
Can you turn the bike without using counter-steering at higher speeds? Possibly - but I would not recommend it The biggest problem folks seem to have with counter-steering is just wrapping their head around it. For most folks, if they shut off the mental argument about how counter-steering works and listen to the way the bike feels and look where you want to go, counter-steering comes much more naturally.
beginner, I think it's great that you want to talk about practicing and different techniques that can help you learn to be more proficient on the bike. However, I think you're butting heads with folks because your posts come off as emphasizing practice over riding when that's certainly not necessary. In addition to that, it is quite apparent that you don't have a lot of real-world application for some of the stuff you're talking about (counter balancing to turn as a great example). That's nothing to be ashamed of - however you do need to acknowledge that. I realize you've got a bee in your bonnet about the MSF course - but you seem to be taking that to the next level and are presenting some of your arguments as though you know
better than the MSF coaches. If that's not your intention than you might want to reconsider some of the things you've said/the way you're saying them.
How much practical riding experience do you have? How many miles riding roads/trails, etc? You mentioned you're 30 miles from traffic - have you ever ridden in traffic or on the street? What would you ultimately like to be doing with your motorcycle? If your big aim in riding is to ride around your farm and have fun learning all kinds of slow speed skills - by all means it sounds like you're accomplishing that. However if you have the desire to do more than that, it sounds like the only thing holding you back is you/your fear/whatever is causing you to think that you must move at a snails pace through practicing.
Edited to add: While swear-laden, Dave's video on counter-steering is still the easiest demo of it I've seen:
Click The demo comes about 2 mins in I believe.