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CNF2002 wrote:

no wife/GF to make me lunch

Not to worry, once you get married you still won't have anyone to make your lunch, but you will have a constant reminder about mowing the lawn.

HAH. don't forget the dishes/laundry and omg why dont you ever pick up around this place oh and let me tell you another thing about the toiletseat!


heheh. you crack me up CNF. i think the same things you write. you're just faster than i am.

Really? You guys have such nagging women? Hmmmmmmm.

Candy750 wrote:Really? You guys have such nagging women? Hmmmmmmm.

Well in defense of our women, nothing would probably get done otherwise

CNF2002 wrote: Well in defense of our women, nothing would probably get done otherwise

Mine's coming back from a 3-month long work trip.

Trust me, I'm scrambling!

Candy750 Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2006 6:17 am Post subject:

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Really? You guys have such nagging women? Hmmmmmmm.

Yeah, but they don't realize they're nagging, i'm sure you nag, and just don't realize you do.

I ask very little of him, and I expect even less. We are both very independent. I can handle the majority of my own affairs, and I make about 2x as much $ as him (= I pay 2/3 of the household bills). The world doesn't end if the seat is up, the trash doesn't go out. If he gets laid off, fired, quits, there is no reason to make him feel bad - what could I say - I didn't have to do that job... I am very easy going. Life is short.

Candy750 wrote:I ask very little of him, and I expect even less. We are both very independent. I can handle the majority of my own affairs, and I make about 2x as much $ as him (= I pay 2/3 of the household bills). The world doesn't end if the seat is up, the trash doesn't go out. If he gets laid off, fired, quits, there is no reason to make him feel bad - what could I say - I didn't have to do that job... I am very easy going. Life is short.

Well, we are all of course exaggerating for the sake of a joke (I hope) but those points you mention ARE important.

I try to leave the seat up, I try to take the trash out before the house smells or it overflows.

Someone has to do it. It is basic common courtesy to do so. And being respectful and courteous to your spouse is most important. Support each other, and when conflicts arise, discuss the situation is a neutral manner. Of course, one would question why the spouse would be nagging about the trash and without having simply taken it out herself then again, if one is always taking out the trash, that brings us back to one of those neutral discussions.

That what I mean! If I have time to ask him, I have time to do it myself. We don't have kids, so I think it is easier at my house. I am home more than him - those advanced degrees help you work less and earn more

I read an article about nagging and it said that it's about getting their attention, stating what you want once, and living with that response. I also think one has to accept their spouse for who they are. Like mine is not suddenly going to become this attentive, wonderful, romantic man. Mine is a shoot from the hip, unromantic, jerk, really. But he has a heart of gold, so....

BTW - on the lunch front - Boss brought me a cheeseburger and fries for lunch. Don't let me do that again - it's waaaay to much for lunch!! I still feel like a boa constrictor!

I brought a huge assed lunch to work the other day, 2 ham n cheese sandwhiches, cup of soup, stupid gross filled oatmeal cookie that has way to many calories, halloween candy (take that kids, Im gonna need more, Im eating it all...) and some other assorted things that I dont remember anymore..then to top it off someone gave me a donught.

Im getting fat.....

and the toilet seat is better down, less chance of the things on the shelf above falling into it...EI..tooth brush....

I'd like to mention its probably not a good idea to put your toothbrush on the shelf above your toilet. That's just asking for trouble .