female co-worker...

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VermilionX · Fri Apr 21, 2006 3:14 pm

hmmm... this is becoming interesting. we've been talking a lot lately, especially if we get the same lunch schedule.

earlier, she's gonna go to the bank and i asked if i could come w/ her but i offered to drive her (good thing i was able to borrow my sis' car today).

i feel like we're bonding and being closer. i can feel that she doesn't mind my company and i bet she knows i enjoy her's.

she offered to pick me up from our house since we both come to work at the same time. she said she can't help me go to school but going to work, she can drop by on the way. i politely declined though.

the other day i mentioned to her that i haven't felt what it's like to handle a snake. she said she'll get me one if i like. again, i politely declined.

one thing that gets me though is that she mentions having an anti-social attitude and i've seen proof of it. she doesn't wanna go inside the bank since she said that means she'll have to deal w/ people so she just deposits her check in the ATM machine and later she was confused on why her balance doesn't seem right but she didn't wanna go inside and inquire about it so we just left.

kinda makes me feel good that she doesn't seem to mind me.

anyway... i wanna ask her out someday but i'll take my time see how things develop. she might just be really being nice and nothing more.

Shiv · #92 Unread post by **Shiv** » Fri Apr 21, 2006 3:18 pm

the other day i mentioned to her that i haven't felt what it's like to handle a snake. she said she'll get me one if i like. again, i politely declined.

Lol what?

<insert obvious reference to a different kind of snake handling for her>

Anyways, good luck. Maybe she just needed warming up.

Why'd you decline the rides to work though? That's good talking time.

But maybe an annoyance to her. I dunno. If she offers it out of the blue some time I'd accept it.

VermilionX · Fri Apr 21, 2006 3:39 pm

Shiv wrote:

Why'd you decline the rides to work though? That's good talking time.

But maybe an annoyance to her. I dunno. If she offers it out of the blue some time I'd accept it.

yeah, it just doesn't seem right that she has to pick me up. i should be the one to pick her up.

i guess im kinda old fashioned... it's been a while but it's good that it's still in my instinct to open car door for ladies, which i did earlier.

Fri Apr 21, 2006 3:43 pm

Score some brownie points for manners.

Women ( well the women I know) love good manners.

Wizzard · #95 Unread post by **Wizzard** » Fri Apr 21, 2006 4:25 pm

VermilionX wrote:yeah, it just doesn't seem right that she has to pick me up. i should be the one to pick her up.

No Vermi , you're a male chauvinist pig . Get over it .

Listen to your elders m8!

Myself002 · Fri Apr 21, 2006 4:53 pm

The ride seems like a great convo place, even if she is the one driving.

BigChickenStrips · Sat Apr 22, 2006 5:07 am

<insert obvious reference to a different kind of snake handling for her>

#98 Unread post by **Kal** » Sat Apr 22, 2006 3:53 pm

A bit less throttle and smoother gear changes Verm...

Take it real easy and let her decide she trusts you, especially as she is still attached to someone else(?)

All the protective kit in the world won't do you a lick of good if you screw up an advanced maneavor in a relationship.

Sat Apr 22, 2006 6:17 pm

Very well said Kal.

VermilionX · Sat Apr 22, 2006 8:24 pm

im starting to doubt that she's w/ someone. she's probably wearing the ring just to avoid men but then like i said, when she saw me looking at her ring before, she said said to me she's not married.

she told me why she moved and why she's back here in LA. but yeah, of course she hasn't told me everything. she just said that she got her anti-social behavior from her mom. i almost jokingly said/asked "did somebody hurt you?" but then i held my tongue before i said it.

anyway... i'll see how things develop.