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#1 Unread post by **Jamers!** » Tue May 02, 2006 6:04 pm

So i had a friend who was dating a chick for 2 years, she was a good friend of mine as well. He cheated on her and i told her as i feel she deserves it. Well, that was 3 months ago. He no longer talks to me, she and i are still good friends. I must admit, i do like her. I believe she likes me. She cars nothin about him anymore and with him not talking to me i dont care about him much. Im just wondering if guys think that it would be appropriate to date her or even try something. Do you think that it would be a good idea to see what happens. Oh on a side not, her X and my ex friend. . . happens to work with me. . . above me. . .

comments, ideas, opionions are welcome

JWF

Tue May 02, 2006 6:15 pm

Go for it. But don't tell him til he/you leave the company.

VermilionX · Tue May 02, 2006 6:15 pm

3 months ago eh?

you and your ex-friend seem to be just ignoring each other so i doubt he would do anything different if you try something. and, he probably expects it.

but still, i dunno how much you are willing to risk for this girl.

ejshotgun · #4 Unread post by **ejshotgun** » Wed May 03, 2006 1:54 am

It all depends on how she "Feels".
Luck

CNF2002 · #5 Unread post by **CNF2002** » Wed May 03, 2006 2:56 am

Your ex friend sounds like scum. Date the girl and show her a good time!

BigChickenStrips · Wed May 03, 2006 4:25 am

i dont see any reason you couldnt date her but take it slow, and DONT LET OTHER DUDE FIND OUT! i have an ex who ran off with my best friend, very very hurtful, im still not completely over that. but this thread isnt about me, its about you. so anyway. good luck.

CNF2002 · #7 Unread post by **CNF2002** » Wed May 03, 2006 4:30 am

HandsomeRyan wrote:i dont see any reason you couldnt date her but take it slow, and DONT LET OTHER DUDE FIND OUT! i have an ex who ran off with my best friend, very very hurtful, im still not completely over that. but this thread isnt about me, its about you. so anyway. good luck.

Completely different situation. If you cheated on your girlfriend and she dumped you, you've got nothing to say. He is scum and ended the relationship himself, and this guy has the nerve to be upset with his friend about it? Dont do the crime if you cant do the time.

Go for it! If this guy has dumped you as a friend because he's a cheat he doesnt deserve your sympathy.

Myself002 · #8 Unread post by **Myself002** » Wed May 03, 2006 5:01 am

Hehe just from my own past experinces I wouldnt do it. I wouldnt of even told her he cheated on her. I'm all about staying out of that kind of drama.

#9 Unread post by **9000white** » Wed May 03, 2006 8:43 am

would you have told him if you saw her cheating????

CNF2002 · #10 Unread post by **CNF2002** » Wed May 03, 2006 9:05 am

9000white wrote:would you have told him if you saw her cheating????

Heck yes!