The overwhelming consensus was (despite my size...6'4" 230lbs), that I should keep it under a 1liter, 60HP bike....so that's what I did! I picked up a BEAUTIFUL Black 2003 Suzuki Volusia 800. It has an 805cc engine and cranks out 56 HP. It moves me along just fine. I had a buddy bring it home for me (since it had to go on the freeway) and he said it handled great at 75mph! That's from a guy who just spent 5 times as much on his 2005 Harley Deuce!!!
I have christened my bike "Bart", after the notorious outlaw Charles "Black Bart" Bolles, not the underachieving Simpson offspring!

Thanks again for all of the GREAT advice!
-JN