How to explain injuries?
Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 3:26 pm
Hey, as some of you may remember, I recently crashed at my MSF course and broke my left foot and my right wrist. Details are in this thread for those who didn't see it. Basically, college starts again tommorrow, and even just the people I've ran into so far this weekend have all asked what happened, of course.
Well, I've been saying "motorcycle crash" or "motorcycle accident", and then it's either "well, I guess you've learned to stick with a car then, huh?" or "how fast were you going? what?! only 15! wow, motorcycles are more dangerous than I thought!". Worse is when they ask what exactly happened and I mention it was at a safety class, then I get "ha! some safety class...". And even worse than that is when they ask more about the safety class and I have to admit that I ended up with the highest score, then I get "wow, that's scary...".
I just know that I'm giving motorcycling a very poor rep to a lot of people with whom I just don't have time to really discuss it with. I can see it now, when one of these peoples' kids or significant other wants to start riding "NO WAY!! When I was in college, I met this guy who broke 2 bones in a 15mph crash. Just imagine if you got in a wreck at traffic speeds?! INSTANT DEATH!!"
So, anyways, my question is this: Does anyone have any better ideas on how to explain what happened or how to head off the misperceptions sure to follow? Or is it just inevitable and there's nothing I can do about it? It just annoys me all the conclusions these un-informed people jump to. I know I'm not the only person to have this problem, so also, you people that have had injuries (particularly obvious ones), how did you explain it in order to avoid misunderstandings? Or did you just let people think what they wanted to think?
Also, here's a pic of what I look like with my casts and special crutch attachment (I guess that's why I get so many people staring):

Well, I've been saying "motorcycle crash" or "motorcycle accident", and then it's either "well, I guess you've learned to stick with a car then, huh?" or "how fast were you going? what?! only 15! wow, motorcycles are more dangerous than I thought!". Worse is when they ask what exactly happened and I mention it was at a safety class, then I get "ha! some safety class...". And even worse than that is when they ask more about the safety class and I have to admit that I ended up with the highest score, then I get "wow, that's scary...".
I just know that I'm giving motorcycling a very poor rep to a lot of people with whom I just don't have time to really discuss it with. I can see it now, when one of these peoples' kids or significant other wants to start riding "NO WAY!! When I was in college, I met this guy who broke 2 bones in a 15mph crash. Just imagine if you got in a wreck at traffic speeds?! INSTANT DEATH!!"
So, anyways, my question is this: Does anyone have any better ideas on how to explain what happened or how to head off the misperceptions sure to follow? Or is it just inevitable and there's nothing I can do about it? It just annoys me all the conclusions these un-informed people jump to. I know I'm not the only person to have this problem, so also, you people that have had injuries (particularly obvious ones), how did you explain it in order to avoid misunderstandings? Or did you just let people think what they wanted to think?
Also, here's a pic of what I look like with my casts and special crutch attachment (I guess that's why I get so many people staring):
