A well stated point to which I very much agree. I'm a regular rough sports guy (skiing, MTB, lacrosse, etc), all of which have an option for additional safety gear...and all of which I CHOOSE to wear. No matter what sport you participate in, you'll always have this safety equipment debate. The fact of the matter is...unless there's a law, it's a personal choice. I don't feel it's necessary to criticize other people's choices unless it directly effects me of those close to me...which this guy didn't. On the other hand...if someone is an idiot and mocks a person for wearing a helmet, jacket, boots, gloves, armor, jock strap, mouth guard, etc...without provocation...then we can make fun of him; not because he's not using it, but because he feels it necessary to point out a level of "coolness" which only makes himself look dumb.And I don't feel particulary sorry for anyone who wrecks on their bike when they have a perfectly safe cage parked in the driveway. Or for skydivers who die after jumping out of a perfectly good airplane. Or for rock climbers who fall to their death after leaving safer ground. Or for scuba divers that die after submerging themselves in water where they cannot breathe. Or for race car drivers that die after pushing their cars to the limit trying to achieve glory.
Apparently you can hop aboard an inherently unsafe two-wheeled vehicle and yet remain beyond reproach. But if someone else takes that activity just one step farther, they're an idiot. We're all thrillseekers by virtue of the fact that we ride. Why people here continue to insist on creating a rift in the motorcycling community with gear bashing is beyond me. I'm not defending the helmetless rider's comment, he's just as bad. I'm just always surprised to see how intolerant this group of self-proclaimed "open-minded" people can be at times.
I apologize if I implied that guy was an idiot for not wearing a helmet in my story...my intention was to make fun of him for commenting on my choices; it was his comments I was after. His life...his choices.