First off, I'm 31 years old, 6'2" and weigh 215lbs. I rode dirt bikes (up to Honda's 600cc monster) a lot of my life, from around 7th grade to college, but haven't rode one at all since then.
When I first started looking at cruisers (which is what I want), the Honda VTX1800F caught my eye. Now I'm starting to look at stuff like the Kawasaki 1500 (or even the 2000) and such. However, today I stumble upon this forum (great reading, btw!) and it seems I'm WAY overshooting what I should be looking at for a (relative) newbie. In the sticky it says if the bike I'm looking at is over 50hp, then it's too much. Needless to say, those 1500+cc monsters listed above are quite a bit more than that!
I do not want to waste my time buying a small bike, only to get used to it and then wish I had more. I absolutely LOVE those big bikes, and I'm a big guy who can at least raise one off the kickstand (as I've done at a dealer or two so far). Why should I settle for something I don't want? I'm not some 18 yr old punk wanting a Hayabusa.
So, I guess what I'm asking is, talk me out of getting what I want and talk me into getting a starter bike. Pretty please

Nathan