Sounds like a good result all round. I cant imagine that a desicion like that will have been easy.
I was scared witless before my son was born that he might have special needs as I dont know if I have that kind of strength in me.
I know you and I disagree about pretty much everything under the sun, but I have a lot of respect for the strength you've needed and your desire to do the right thing by all your children.
Jules and I sincerely hope the good fortune continues for both you and your family.