
Loonette
Did you have me pegged for a religious zealot the first time we met for a ride? Do you think me naive enough to think I can size someone up and know all their inner workings and beliefs based on their clothes, piercings, or tattoos? Do you think because you had an abortion and practice yoga, or because you vote democrat and don't call yourself a Christian that I no longer want to ride with you and Scan this summer? If so, who's being judgemental here? For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, Looney, including me. As a Christian I take a stand against a lot of the things you believe in, but as a friend I accept you as you are and hope to put on some more miles together in the future. If you choose not to associate with me any longer that's your choice, but it's only because knowing what you now know about me you're afraid I'll be sitting in constant judgement of you. And if you can't see the irony in that, then you've missed the whole point Ron and I have been trying to make for twenty pages now.Loonette wrote:Ron - you have always had kind words for people on this board including me. I know that you would help me if I needed it - even if you just met me on the street. Zoo - I'm not so sure of. He's met me and knows me a bit more personally. If we were strangers though, I believe he would think that he could size me up in one glance based on my physical appearance (and without seeing me with my bike). Am I wrong, Zoo? I hope so, but again, I'm not sure.
It's statements like this one that lead me to think you are judgmental. The word promiscuous in no way describes any sex life I've ever had. Scan has been it in that department (well, except for the guy that I "lost" it to, but that was only twice and well protected). You really don't see any gray. So you have decided that these women, which includes me, are merely promiscuous and should have their tubes tied. This wouldn't make me very comfortable in your presence.ZooTech wrote:A woman's "right to choose" begins and ends in the bedroom. To argue otherwise is to reinforce what I said earlier - that abortion is nothing more than a way to make sex as consequence-free as possible. Instead of granting abortions, why not just tie the tubes of the promiscuous woman in question and let her have at it?
SV, I've enjoyed the discussion thus far and appreciate you hanging in there and at least giving it an honest listen. As for sneers, evasions, or name calling, I have to say I have no idea what you're talking about. Perhaps you, too, are confusing my brand of blunt honesty with judgement and intolerance. Gummi is the only one who went out of his way to dodge my questions, and I was labeled "wild" by at least a couple participants. Granted I may have lost my cool or even confused one person for another (easy to do in a constant barrage of hostile responses), but I never belittled anyone or evaded a line of questioning.sv-wolf wrote:Zoo, it's a shame you always spoil your posts with sneers and evasions.
The name calling however, justs blasts off into your own stuff and gets us nowhere.
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