Last person to post here is the winner [Thereof] :P

[intotherain]

ha hahaha

Awe, thats sweet, thanks dohun!
I'll save that picture.

Haha I am in your avatar.. You know in a week or couple weeks or whenever you take it out to replace it with a kitty or a stick fighting gif, I will be very sad and I am going to notice it's not there the first day you take it out so basically you have to keep it in there for the rest of your time here at TMW.

[VermilionX]

girls want manly men. F**kers

are you for serious? I completely disagree... I have yet to meet one girl who likes just the muscles of a male. go ask shelly she seems like the person who likes boy for who they are:lol:. she'll tell you its not true. (hopefully) I still can't tell if your serious though, are you joking?? I don't want to type all this and find out your just joking..

nah. it's all about taste.

just like us guys.

this world would be boring if everybody likes the same stuff.

[JC Viper]

Unfortunately I ain't jokin' and the cops can't do much because it's not a serious call. Instead I have to call the 311 hotline for that crapp.

If I look like I'm gonna wimp out and walk away that's it people see can't protecting a girl let alone myself.

I just walked away... I don't know why I let my sifu (teacher) get to me with that non-violence garbage it's like I can be walked on.

The firing range wants $50 for 2 hours but I really need to relieve some tension. I mean I'm not too angry about it anymore but it's still on the back of my mind like fly buzzing around.

[Apollofrost]

It's not that girls like a**holes, it's that they tend to like assertive guys who are comfortable in their own skin, however by assertive I do not mean disrespectful.

They like to be with people that they can spend time with and interact with on more than one level. That they can feel comfortable with.

If you're unsure and ill at ease chances are ( unless the girl has already decided that she likes you ) that she's not going to be into you, because why should she?

Now an interesting factor comes in to play, trophies. A lot of girls like (on some level) to be able to tell their friends and themselves how great their boyfriend is. It's just a fact of life. Now I'm not saying that girls are going to go around picking and choosing solely based on that, but it is a factor that varies in importance according to the girl.

Luckily it's not all about looks, because some of the biggest trophies are social. He's sweet, he cares for me, I can feel comfortable with him.

Now what's my advice?

Ok, number one meet new people. Walk over, say "Hi!". Meet friends of your friends, and even if you don't end up dating... you now have more friends!

Be open, but not insulting.

Ask questions, pursue lines of inquiry. Chances are if somebody mentions something to you, they want to talk about it.

Listen! No, don't wait till she's done talking, listen and think about what she says!

Don't just be there because there's a chance that you might hook-up, be with the girl because you want to be. Who knows, she just might want to be with you too.


Just my $2

[intotherain]

It's not that girls like a**holes, it's that they tend to like assertive guys who are comfortable in their own skin, however by assertive I do not mean disrespectful.

They like to be with people that they can spend time with and interact with on more than one level. That they can feel comfortable with.

If you're unsure and ill at ease chances are ( unless the girl has already decided that she likes you ) that she's not going to be into you, because why should she?

Now an interesting factor comes in to play, trophies. A lot of girls like (on some level) to be able to tell their friends and themselves how great their boyfriend is. It's just a fact of life. Now I'm not saying that girls are going to go around picking and choosing solely based on that, but it is a factor that varies in importance according to the girl.

Luckily it's not all about looks, because some of the biggest trophies are social. He's sweet, he cares for me, I can feel comfortable with him.

Now what's my advice?

Ok, number one meet new people. Walk over, say "Hi!". Meet friends of your friends, and even if you don't end up dating... you now have more friends!

Be open, but not insulting.

Ask questions, pursue lines of inquiry. Chances are if somebody mentions something to you, they want to talk about it.

Listen! No, don't wait till she's done talking, listen and think about what she says!

Don't just be there because there's a chance that you might hook-up, be with the girl because you want to be. Who knows, she just might want to be with you too.


Just my $2

okay honestly, this is the complete opposite of me. First, I am not joking at all, or making any of this up but at the school I go to, but I have recieved three cards from girls and NOT fecking kiddng, got asked to the dance three different times (by different people that sent the cards).(I dont know if this is normal for white people but def. not for Korean people...) (I feel kind of betchy writing this but I gotta prove a point.) and to have some kind of evidence that im not making all of this up trying to look like motof150.





Now why do I still have this card 1 month after Valentines day? because shes my girlfriend right now and I want to show her later to get some brownie points.


and why is this happening to me? i really have no idea. Im not macho, im not assertive, and I dont think there can be anything really that special or trophies about me.

So what do I think the order of importance are for girls?
1. Personality/honesty
1 1/16. good looks
2. I can't think of anything more right now
3. I bet the girls here are getting a real kick out of this.
....
...
106. Macho macho man

now girls, tell me how close I was!




and I really hope no one I know reads this post. Gawd why did I have to make my username my real name.. I should made it something like "the dragon" or something like that.

[Apollofrost]

Hey, maybe they just feel comfortable around you. Also I remember when I was back in the states and all the girls were going on and on about cute asian guys.

So enjoy it!


PS: Chances if your user name was The Dragon we all would have offered you a tic-tac.

Just kidding.

[intotherain]

Hey, maybe they just feel comfortable around you. .

oh darn I thought they liked me

Also I remember when I was back in the states and all the girls were going on and on about cute asian guys.

oh darn I thought I was just special.

So enjoy it!

dont worry, I will

[logitech104]

and girls want manly men.

I can't believe you think that.

Haha I am in your avatar.. You know in a week or couple weeks or whenever you take it out to replace it with a kitty or a stick fighting gif, I will be very sad and I am going to notice it's not there the first day you take it out so basically you have to keep it in there for the rest of your time here at TMW.

heh, your lucky your even in my sig!
if I change my sig that doesen't mean i don't like it anymore silly.

Now why do I still have this card 1 month after Valentines day? because shes my girlfriend right now and I want to show her later to get some brownie points.

You should hold on to it because it is near and dear to your heart, and came from someone who you love, not because you want brownie points
unless...you...really like brownies...

So what do I think the order of importance are for girls?
1. Personality/honesty
1 1/16. good looks
2. I can't think of anything more right now
3. I bet the girls here are getting a real kick out of this.
....
...
106. Macho macho man

now girls, tell me how close I was!

you bet!

Pretty close, all girls are different though. I tend to like guys who are real sweet hearts.
Guys dont need that "bad boy" or "manly" image or any of that garbage, in spite of me not being experienced in the relationship department as I have never been on a date or even to a dance, anyway, going to far
Dohun, you made that pic for me, I love it, but I'm not obsessed, it is really about the small thoughtful things though.




i tired...


does anyone have any getting-to-sleep tips? I could use them right about now Kinda sick of laying on my bed only trying to get the physical rest needed later.
thanks

~Shelly

[Shorts]

Owie, my lips burn. I put too much lemon pepper on my shrimp and squash kabobs.

Logi104, I have no tips. I've been having trouble sleeping lately myself. Though I do find that my body likes to have heavy covers on, so I turn the temp down a little bit so I can cuddle in the blankets and not get too hot.

[Ninja Geoff]

mmm sleep. I just got like... 10, 11 hours of it

This is after being awake for ~26 hours straight.

And you guys are funny, we were having almost the same discussion on another forum, just about men's different in tastes in girls.