jus a couple of ??? (wife was an insurance agent) private lot? parked in an area not intended for parking?
if it was your works parking lot (private lot, not public like side of a main road) you are better off going for your works insurance policy. it happened on THERE lot. thats what his insurance company will say. (i know it suks but that's insurance people for ya). and the news gets worse because by your admission
problem was i was technically not legally parked... I had parked at the end of the lot in the "cuttaway".
they could deny this claim also. and the really bad part...... please dont hate me i'm jus the messenger. they could blame you for all this, and you could be liable

. for making an unsafe enviroment.
and if my wife is correct the officer filled out a report of damage but did not charge anyone correct??? because in their eyes they jus let the insurance companies fight it out.
lemme know how it goes. if it was me i would do the" i'd rather not get all the insurance companies involved gimme $500.00 bucks and we call it even" deal and get away from it all. and don't be such a nice guy next time.