Beginner, why don't you point form what your Pro's and Con's are. I think we have a good idea of what you are trying to get across, but putting it to list will help others out who read this thread.
Q. Did you take an MSF course? If you did, did you come out of it feeling that the instruction wasn't adaquate or you felt you didn't have confidence in your skills?
I don't want to pick apart your statements as I feel they are not wrong exactly, but misguided by inexperience. I'm definately a "safe rider" advisor, in fact, I setup Total Motorcycle to be an information and education website to help motorcyclists worldwide.
Reading more indepth of your posts I read/see what new riders go through, it's uncertainty of your own skills. Usually, this is taken care of after the MSF course is passed, sometimes it takes longer to build up that important foundation of confidence.
Practice is important, the more practice you have riding a motorcycle, the easier it gets in basic riding. If you want to ride in MotoGP, you'll need more skills than the MSF course will teach you. That's why they have Advanced MSF courses for experienced riders. "Experienced rider" is one who has "mastered" the basics of riding a motorcycle in normal road conditions over the years, who has learned from their mistakes, encounted "oh snap!" emergency conditions and feels confident on the bike to ride in the rain or down a gravel road or go on a motorcycle trip.
A brand new rider like yourself isn't an experienced rider (yet), and the world is unknown place, you never know what you'll encounter around that bend, if you'll stop in just the nick of time or what you'll do in that second you hit a patch of gravel on a corner. But you'll learn, like we did, trial and error. Sometimes you'll drop your bike (been there many times myself!), sometimes you get the cold sweats (yup that too), sometimes you'll surprise yourself and you will react faster than your brain does!
That's what good riding is about, not thinking, just acting. Reactions are faster than thinking "ok, what do I do when...". That's how riders gain experience out of the parking lot and become better riders. We build up a learning curve, each new lession we learn is built upon something we learned in the past. That's why I suggest starting on a SMALL cc motorcycle as you'll learn faster than starting on a BIG cc bike. Why? It's all about confidence at the start. Your skill curve will grow faster when your confident (but not over confident!).
Read the Total Motorcycle Beginners Guide to Motorcycling:
http://www.totalmotorcycle.com/school.htm
I wrote it for new riders, like yourself, and you'll see that there are a lot of practicing lessions to do that boost your skills and confidence up.
Remember you can practice as much as you want a skill, and yes, you'll master it eventually, but like school grades, you do the best you can, you might not master it all, but you move on to learn new things.
Mike
P.S. I ride a motorcycle better and more confidently than I drive a car; and I'm not a bad car driver at all (no accidents, no tickets).

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